H emailed me this morning.

Is D3 feeling better, and what do you want the plan to be for the weekend?

My H is very passive aggressive and never wants to "tell me" what the plan is, I am supposed to guess what he wants to do. I know he would prefer not to see the kids Sat. since he is working very late friday but I feel like I accomadate this all the time. I wrote back what I want, in a pleasant yet unpersonal way.

"As this is your weekend - pick up Saturday at 9 AM and perhaps you can return by 3 so I can go to my Uncle's Seder. Then you can pick up Sunday very early for Easter. We will then resume alternating with next weekend being mine.
D3 has recovered and is feeling better"

Dont think my H liked my response cause he hasnt written back. But when I write friendly things he doesnt like that either cause then "I am not getting it -- its over!!"

ugh. Any thoughts??


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13