Bug and Mishka, thank you for taking the time to respond. I really do appreciate it.

MF and Starsky, I get where you are both coming from. I've thought all of those things.

I am will not justify my actions because I clearly crossed my own boundaries, but when I messaged you on 3/26 (Starsky) I said that I planned to make that clear to him but really didn't establish that crossed boundary until after the second time.

Did I know it? Yes
Did I express it very clearly to him? No

But that being said, he doesn't respect my boundaries and I need to have that self control. Even after I clearly expressed my boundaries, he joked with me about them. I don't disagree with what you are saying Starsky.

I just got off the phone with my father and I will be going there for the weekend and spending Easter with them.


-Autumn