I'm starting to think my H is going through an MLC which is why we are moving in slooooow motion. And Princess, I think this will take a couple years for my sitch since there was a PA/EA. However, I think I'll be done DB when I hit the yr mark bomb was dropped (7/30/11). After that I'm doing LRT and Going Dark with absolutely NO EXPECTATIONS!

Eva- good for you on reading up. It helps to be educated on their mental breakdown. Reminds us, we are NOT the problem. Keep being distant! Sounds to me like he wants that emotional intimacy! WTG!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017