I heard something that applies to all us LBS's. To the idea of...
Once we realize how unmanageable we are and start to work on ourselves, we stop trying to manage WAS's life. Why? cuz we're too busy fixing ourselves!

I was and am still a wreck. I've got to take care of myself so that I can take care of my kids.
Detach Autumn. It's easier said than done.

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017