Trusting,
Your xh still wants to control your life and unfortunately, he doesn't care or even realize that he no longer has the final say in financial matters, especially when the judicial system is involved.

As for arguing w/you, he isn't a happy camper even w/a fiance in the picture. He doesn't know what he wants and he doesn't want to see you happy and successful....too bad!

I hope that you and your famil have a wonderful Easter!


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.