in my case, it is not. my husband is of the mindset that if i don't want to be with him and i don't communicate, i don't care about him or i'm retaliating. maybe each sitch is unique. i tried LRT but it's too close to my behavior that drove him away. so it's not a 180 for me and that's what he needs from me.

hope my opinion helps.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing