Autumn,

I looked at your signature. Are you still holding strong? If you have any wisdom to impart, it would be appreciated.

I feel so lost...I thought DB was going great and then over the last four days I hit Disasterville. After H screaming at me over the phone about his finances I felt changing the locks and not allowing for a weekend away with D4 was appropriate. H felt otherwise. H has a sleazy litigation L rather than a family law one. I never seen H so consumed by $ before.


M: 39, H: 38
D: 4
Together: 19 Y
Married: 9 Y
Bomb #1: 11/04/11 (5 days b/f anniversary)
Bomb #2 and H left: 01/03/12 (day b/f my bday)
OW: confirmed, they live together already