So much for protecting myself. I was called into court yesterday at the last minute by H regarding custody, and the D is being by him ASAP. This is a result of standing up for our D4 and myself.
M: 39, H: 38 D: 4 Together: 19 Y Married: 9 Y Bomb #1: 11/04/11 (5 days b/f anniversary) Bomb #2 and H left: 01/03/12 (day b/f my bday) OW: confirmed, they live together already