I don't know. I left when i confirmed my husband's affair, but sometimes i wonder if putting distance between you and the WAS is helpful for the marriage. I understand the need to give space, but is separation really helpful? (just trying to get your opinions)

Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11