also, when i said LRT does not work with him, it's because he interprets that as me being "hard" and "tough". he wants to see a softer side of me because i always resort to putting a wall up and letting him know i can live without him. so he see LRT as more of the same and I THINK, more kind texts and sweet words as 180's. does that make sense? thank you so much for looking in.
Did he tell you these things or are you mind-reading?
Also, I'm unclear on what you want. I thought I read that you said the marriage was over and you realized you 2 couldn't be together, or something to that affect. Am I right?
Can you clearly state your goal? I know this is very hard, and you're in pain but try to envision the person you want to be.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
