My question- my H has always been sarcastic of which has not changed since he came home. For, the most part it seems innocent enough but I know there are times when there are bits of truth in his sarcastic comment. If I acknowledge the sarcasm he will say "I was just kidding -geez" ah no sorry I don't think so. I have expressed my desire for him to just to tell me whatever "it" is in normal conversation instead of the sarcasm. To me - it is someone being a coward. Anyway, he must be feeling comfortable again at H because here comes the sarcasm. I want someones honest opinion. Am I taking it too seriously? Comments like- "oh honey you have gotten so old" or "pants a little tight" When I type them they sound juvenile but really? Also, remember this man had an A with someone 10 years younger so I may be more sensitive to that stuff in my mind. Shouldn't he be able to figure that out?? What do you think? I've also feel like he has been looking at other W. If I do bring this to his attention he is mortified because he says he wasn't. NOw, he told me the reason I do that is because I must be jealous of these women. I have to add. I am quite content with how I look and feel. It seems his intention is to drag me down with him cause he feels like crap about himself. So, bring it on. AM I over exagerating? Being dramatic? Am I as insecure as he likes to make me out to be?Thanks.
