I know. I think I've accepted my wife is not the person I thought she was. I wanted to understand "what she is thinking", "why she would want this" but I think I've accepted that I never will. She is insisting on decided custody, ED, etc legally right now, is not just trying a split. I have business interests, lots of debt, premarital assets so split will not be easy. I know the divorce is going to suck for the kids but I've done everything I can to save it. Wife is going to be gone soon, I assume there will be a quick court case for temporary custody which will set schedule.
I think she knows I'm good guy, I have not let myself go, etc. It appears to be about her having to do about 65% of child raising in the past, so her solution to make is better is to try to full custody. She stopped taking ambiem and is moody.. mad all the time now. She should not be taking it when she during her custody time with the kids, and she have to get up earlier than she ever does, and get off work a hour sooner... and actually feed and play with the kids in the evenings. Kind of concerned how she will handle it. She took the kids away one night last weekend and they cryed because they wanted to be at home with me... stuff like that is really putting a lot of pressure on her. She looks exhausted all the time now.
