He sounds very immature and selfish. I am concerned about him staying with the baby. You really don't know what he does during the day? I think you can figure it out. I went down that path and I know that one can get so caught up spending time on computer, cell phone, etc., and lose track of time & what they are suppose to be doing.
I'm also concerned that your H has no desire to make a living for his family. Whatever you do, don't get pregnant again! He has you bringing home the paycheck and he sees no need to find a job! Did he work in the past or has he always been undependable?
You can't respect him b/c he's not behaving like a H & father should act. Is that what you want to live with the rest of your life? I'm not trying to push you to D, but I know young women tend to have dreams of their man changing to better......but seldom does that happen. You have to look at reality.
Were you pregnant when you M him?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
