well this all baffles me so much, ex hasnt bothered with son at all for another two years, and all in all out of the seven years he as been gone can honestly say he as only bothered with him for around 18 months total, and that was not really the father/son relationship that they used to have. Although fast forward and although son says he wouldnt bother with his father now I think deep down if the skank was gone he would, but tell me why oh why cant the ex bother with his only child but he is being the do-gooder by looking after, helping, providing for, guiding and caring for some other young man, who yes was a friend of both of us, and this laddy is in serious trouble with the law, for drug dealing, using, drunk driving and beating his partner up in front of their two children, and yet my sons father chooses to take him under his wing and give him all the love and affection and help that he should be giving his son. also on the same note that if our son had committed the offences this other young lad has back in the day ex would of wiped his hands of him and told him and punished him for his offences, so folks what is the difference. why tend and care to someone elses son when you cant tend and care to your own. mmmmmmmm
