2pac - After you mentioned retrouvaille before, I went and looked it up. The next one in the area is in September. I've already requested more information. They also recommended using it to complement MC.
The whole limbo talk, I believe, is coming from MIL's pressure on her and insistence that MC was good for her as an individual as well. The pastor and the counselor want to take a two pronged approach, or as my pastor put it, for the counseling to have church accountability. He says he's had lots of success with this approach, and told us that while our sitch was bad, he's helped worse... and after our joint meeting with him, he said he had hope and encouragement for us. So... it's hard to say. I agree that the language is alarming, but she's also acknowledged that she's going to have a real hard time in general if we divorce, and that she's comfortable here.
I just don't know what's going to happen.
Me: 31 W: 28 M: almost 6 T: 10.5 S2 Bomb#1: 05/11 Bomb#2: 11/11 S'd: 11/28/11 Moved back in: 12/28/11 MC: 06/28/12