Quote:
Not trying to mind-read, or anything, but she has said a couple of times that it was the "last step" and "we need to get out of limbo"


Ok, red flag here from my perspective. If your W believes this may be the last step, then maybe a 2 pronged approach might be useful.

I read what you said abut Retrouvaille but maybe in the context of needing to get unstuck and out of limbo, now might be a good time to broach the subject. With your W's religious beliefs, this may be just the thing that is needed to help you both.

Maybe consider talking to the MC about this as a piggyback to the MC and see what he says? I just feel like you two need to take advantage of this time to do everything possible to get things back on track.

Now I've never been to RV but from what I've heard and what research I've done, I really think this could help.


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife