Thank u Yankee. I went back to rereading DR. I haven't picked it up in months. There have been so many changes in our 'friendship' that I should feel proud of myself. I notice we talk more about personal matters (emotional intimacy). Almost like before all this mess. I try very hard to follow the 37rules.
I understand this is a very slow process but this is really going slower than a snail's pace. I'm beginning to think this is a MLC.
I'm going to another Al Anon meeting this evening. That's 2 today. I feel so much better when I'm there.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017