Thank u Yankee.
I went back to rereading DR. I haven't picked it up in months. There have been so many changes in our 'friendship' that I should feel proud of myself. I notice we talk more about personal matters (emotional intimacy). Almost like before all this mess. I try very hard to follow the 37rules.

I understand this is a very slow process but this is really going slower than a snail's pace. I'm beginning to think this is a MLC.

I'm going to another Al Anon meeting this evening. That's 2 today. I feel so much better when I'm there.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017