jks - I think you need to really think about what Accuray said. I'm kind of in the same place as you, so I know you feel when you say "choosing OW". I've restrained myself from giving my H an ultimatum, and I think it was the best decision I made so far. (I've made plenty of mistakes, too!)
Accuray - That was some great advice! I needed to read that myself, as you know.
Thanks for sticking around and giving us another perspective!
