Accuray, I get what you're saying completely. Thank you for continued guidance and perspective. I will be thinking about this a lot over the next couple of days.
I hope things are going well for you and your W while you're still reconciling. I will have to update myself on your sitch this week. Happy Spring Break!
JKS
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.