I would continue to give him space too. He's 'giving all the signs,' and it is sooooo confusing for us. But like Accuray says - they are a bit crazy at the moment. They think they want this, and that and everything else is sooo much better elsewhere. What they forget is that they take themselves everywhere they go.
It is hard, but it's a good opportunity to get self-focussed on things that you enjoy that will lift you up.
I too decided to give my H his space - from yesterday - will do that for a week and see how that goes. To be honest, I'm doing it more for myself though to give myself a break from thinking about it all the time. I will be seeing my H on Friday though anyway, so it's not exactly entirely dark, but I guess I decided to not initiate anything.
