Thanks everyone for the support. It really does help.

2-yes, I need to let them come to terms with things and figure it out. They both stuff their feelings, especially anger. Hopefully they can each grow through this experience.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss