Not sure where to start

[wishing, hoping]

Yes, I need to GAL. He has obviously moved on. We went over everything last night and he is being very generous. He is obviously feeling guilt, but not remorse. I need to give him space. I notice if I do not answer his phone calls or his emails and go out on my own he is almost badgering me wanting me to respond.

As far as the other woman goes, I guess that is his choice to make. He mentioned something last night about me finding a boyfriend. I am by no means ready to enter into another relationship and at this point can't imagine ever being ready.

I am going back home to my family in Indiana this weekend. I always seem to recharge whenever I go back there so this should be good for my soul and for my self-esteem. I need to go dark from H. He wants us to be such good friends. I think we can co-parent effectively, but as far as being friends, that will be too painful. I need to come up with better detaching strategies. Any recommendations are appreciated.