Andabelle: I am switching the bedrooms, taking back the master bedroom. I am putting in that room all that he has said he wanted. Which isn't much. Since I'm suppused to be getting the house ready to go on the market, I'm trying to make it all look nice. Not slapped together.
I have been sleeping in that room, and I was waking up every morning feeling pushed out of place. I slept in my bed the last 2 nights, and woke up feeling much better.
Snodderly: My sister keeps telling me the same thing, that a burden will be lifted and I will feel better. And I know OW is a trouble causing drama queen, for all her claims to the contrary.
I have not bothered her, harassed her, done anything to her. Yet she keeps all this stuff up. Every step I take to get out of her way causes another reaction. I would be in jail if I was doing to her what she has done to me. People who have the training she has can get in big trouble for mis-using their computer knowledge.
Me getting control back over my computer seems to be one of the things that got her going here recently. Now she is doing other things to engage with me. And I can't possibly stay married to a man dumb enough to say to me that he doesn't know who is sending me the texts.
So I will wake up every morning from now on, with a beautiful sunrise out my window, and enjoy the time I have left living as a princess in my beautiful bedroom.
I am sorting out all the closets, and being in the right mood, I have filled several large boxes with misc. junk. Clothes are going too. If it doesn't look good on me, into the donate pile it goes.
Have a nice day everyone.
It was really bugging me, him calling it "His" bedroom, "His" bathroom. I don't know why. Maybe it was the loss of the word "OUR".
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!