Journal: Today is going well. I had a good day at work. H has done a lot around the house this weekend while I was working, but got a little pissy with me because he had to go to a reading last night and wanted me to do a bunch of laundry and wash a dish in the sink. Honestly, it will be 2 weeks before I have a day off and I'm EXHAUSTED. I put on the laundry, but when I went to do the casserole dish in the sink, discovered that H used up all the dish soap and didn't tell me. So I had no soap. At this point I said "Screw this", filled up the dish with water and left it. I watched a movie for the rest of the night and relaxed.
H was a little pissy over this. I pretty much told him to get over it, I had worked all weekend and was entitled to relax. He just rolled his eyes like it's typical. I find it irritating, because I work all week and he sits around, hardly doing a thing. The house could be a total mess and he wouldn't care. But now suddenly, he's spent 1 weekend doing housework and suddenly he's "sick of doing everything"? I'm just ignoring him. That's a BIG 180 for me. Usually when he pisses me off, I tell him about it and get mad. Right now I'm just ignoring him and not taking the bait. He tends to try to pick fights about stupid things when he's really upset about something completely different. I can't stand passive aggressive behaviour, so if he can't be an adult and tell me what's wrong, then I'm just going to ignore it.
M:29 H:30 M:2.5 years T:13 years No kids EA:11/2011 PA:01/2012 Bomb:02/2012 H starting another EA, I had enough and we seperate: 03/08/2012 Trying to decide what I want for a change...