As a parent of a 12 and 7 yr old when my W and I split, as this adventure was just beginning for me... I was concerned about some of the stuff that my W was doing in regards to the kids...
Just this weekend, my W to me because I was asking the where abouts of D14 and whom she was with and D14 complained to my W. To which my W spewed on me and indicated that she doesn't ask the kids what they are doing or who they are with...
????? Really...?
Now, I think that's BS, but it's not worth my while to argue about. Still, if I called CFS on my W based on her words as made in an email and the observations of others over the past year, I'm sure they might have some issue or concerns...
So what I'm saying is, your W is concerned for the well being of your son. Whether you feel she is right or wrong in her concerns, they are valid as a parent. And I'm not sure that if she wanted to make some legal case out of it, that it might not go to well for you.
Your choice of course, but those are might thoughts...
Originally Posted By: alamo76
So should I even answer my wife? What makes her think I have a poor judgement of people's character? I mean, she is no better, is she?After all, with reference to all her allegations, she, in all her wisdom and great judgement, chose me to be her life partner.
On this, certainly a bit of anger there. And I get that... and you are venting here and I get that...
still, the tit for tat thinking and rationalizing through anger may not be hugely beneficial for you in the long run...
