I am right there with ya, girl. I DO NOT understand it at all how people do not have the decency to at least say something before everything goes down the drain. I asked my H why he didn't just end it with me when he started sleeping with OW. Why didn't he just tell me he was doing that? It baffles my mind!! All he could say is, I don't know.
I feel bad because in your sitch, you really have no idea what he's doing right now. Continue to DB if in your heart you still want this. But you will have to decide that for yourself. I have a feeling for a while you're going to be back and forth with it. Don't do anything rash until you know for absolute certain. So much easier to just not love at all, isn't it?
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.
