UPDATE Does this never end? My wife found something else to attack me with. Tonight, she sent me the following email:
"Hi Alamo,
I was looking at some pictures of E (our son) that you posted on facebook and noticed you had some houseguests recently called "couch surfers." On researching I found that these are people you don't know that stay in your home. I am not comfortable with you having strangers in your house with our son. Upon looking at your profile I was further alarmed to see that you advertise to the whole world that you have a 3 year old son complete with pictures. I'm shocked that you would be so reckless with our son. If you continue to participate in this than I can't in good conscious allow E to stay over night anymore.
Wife"
To which I say, (a) I screen my couchsurfers (so far only two couples have stayed with me) and so does the Couchsurfing; (b) I mention our son in the description because I'm describing my home setting, i.e. how many people live in my house, what kind of pets I have (if any), the rules I want couchsurfers to comply with because of my home setting, etc., (c) only 1 photo in my couchsurfing album has a face shot of our son; (d) By the default Faceook setting, there are friends of friends who are able to view my albums and of our son, so why isn't she alarmed by that?
So should I even answer my wife? What makes her think I have a poor judgement of people's character? I mean, she is no better, is she? After all, with reference to all her allegations, she, in all her wisdom and great judgement, chose me to be her life partner.
Or should I get off the couch-surfing radar for awhile?
My head hurts just thinking about it...
BTW, after meeting with my counselor on Friday, we will be completing the filing for child custody sometime this week; not something I wish on anybody. As Cosmo Kramer said, "The cat is out of the bag." It is something I have to do. Keep me in your prayers, brothers and sisters! Love you guys.
