ah, where do I begin? My husband and I started marriage counseling in January and about a month ago he told me that he doesn't need to do it anymore, he knows it isn't going to work because he doesn't love me. He says that he married me for all the wrong reasons (my good traits) and he loves me now for those ("being an amazing mother to our children") but there is just no romantic love between us. In therapy we have learned that he has a very passive aggressive personality and has had problems a long the way that he didn't address with me ( I am messy, I take advantage of his "kindness"). So he has been withdrawing for long time. And she thinks that he has completely checked out at this point. He complained to our mutual friend that we just don't have an emotional connection, but that is exactly the reason I wanted to start therapy in the first place! I am so blindsided that if it wasn't for our 2 small children I would say I would walk away. His father called me tonight and said that he knows he is making the biggest mistake of his life. People don't "find happiness" by walking away from their family. There is no OW that I know of, and no one else thinks there is either. Any suggestions or words or wisdom would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!
Me 36, H 36 M 10, T 13 S 4 1/2, D 2
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place
