I've been working on closure this weekend, as well...
I too believe that you never leave a loved one... family... behind...
As much as I want to temp check... I know in my heart of hearts... if my W has anything to say, she will say it... she needs to say it... openly... willingly... honestly... and without prompting...
otherwise, it is not sincere and genuine...
I can remain open to that possibility until a time when I may reach a bridge where that possibility no longer is available...
I do not have to lock any doors... but I do need to move forward... with no regrets... that I tried everything I could...
I know I have tried everything I can, without it being manipulation...
