It's for the kids...invite him regardless...it is the right thing to do, imho.
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PA/mental/emotional abuse really becoming strong until he started going into MLC, which I now think started 6 years ago, but was interrupted. What Im wondering is if the PA/emotional abuse was shoved into overdrive because the MLC, or is this who he truly is now?
I have been ruminating on this exact same issue all weekend regarding W...if I look back I can see some low level tendencies for HPD/BPD...but that has been turned up to "11" since mlc...
I have been asking myself a lot of hard questions if this behavior doesn't subside...heck, I am already fatigued, as are you...I hope your stbx is coming out of that behavior, for everyone's sake.
But we can't trust them now, can we? We know this.
Invite him, observe him like an anthropologist, make notes, repeat until you feel comfortable that your observations reflect a new reality...zero expects...of course...
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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