Hi Everyone, I've been thinking alot and I'd like some input and opinions on something.
As you know next Sunday is Easter. I've decided to have a special Easter Egg hunt here for my girls instead of going to the town Easter Egg hunt. This is for my D9 that's still going to be in crutches and a wheelchair for at least another month. Doing the town Egg Hunt would be dangerous on crutches. So we'll just do our own at home!
What Im really wondering is if I should invite stbx to our home to watch the girls on their hunt. After really examining my issue with him and the buttons that Im allowing him to push on me, I feel relieved and alot of frustration let go. I also have alot of questions and I feel they won't ever get answered if I don't make at least some small effort to be a little more friendly with him. At the same time I wonder, is he just trying to play Mr. Nice Guy again? Is this just for show?
Then other things burning in my mind. I don't recall the PA/mental/emotional abuse really becoming strong until he started going into MLC, which I now think started 6 years ago, but was interrupted. What Im wondering is if the PA/emotional abuse was shoved into overdrive because the MLC, or is this who he truly is now?
Im confused by his behavior going from Mr, Nice Guy, to Mr Nasty Man, to Mr Nice guy again. Because he's been Mr. Nice Guy again consistently, Im very curious how he would react if I were to cautiously invite him "in" again. Zero expectations of course.
