I guess my question is, why not let an attorney handle these issues? It is business only now as evidenced by his lack of empathy for your situation. Why subject yourself to his tantrums?
If you talk with him tonight, avoid any emotional topics. Stick to dollars and sense. I know difficult to do but you know where it will end up.
I think you should defintiely get your share of the pension. How does he know you won't need it in the future. He has a crystal ball now?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss