Dude. Its not a stupid mistake. Its one you made at that time. Its a choice. So accept it.

You love you wife. If you did not you would not be flopping back and forth. But at the same time you rediscovering yourself.

Somewhere in there is balance.

And that my friend is where you have to move towards.

Remember this choice has two results.

1. Your wife goes away on a trip.
2. You get a week with your son.

See you need to change how you deliver your message.

Want to send a message.

Go through your house. Remove all pictures of a marriage. Act like your selling your house. Remove all personal pictures.

Now that they are gone.

Go out and have an amazing day with your son.

Take a ton of pictures.

Go out and get some new picture frames or re use old ones.

Put those pictures up.

And never mention them.

If she asks.

You talk about the amazing day you had.

You will see she will change the subject.

That sends a message.

One she will read loud and clear.

You are not messing around any more.

And if she asks you if you can see a future with her.

You say.

No. Not at this time.

Then you go silent.



You did not pressure her.

You did not control her.

You stated your thoughts. Through actions.

Those will carry more weight.

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