Thanks guys.I'm doing some heavy duty praying on this one. Part of me just wants to let it be. It is, after all, a great thing to even receive alimony in a non alimony state. On the other hand, I don't like being held respoinsible for his debts. It's not really the money, I don't think. Yes, it would make my life more comfortable, but I am not uncomfortable now. I like crossing my bridges as i come to them. I guess what I have to decide is what is my motivation. Revenge? Getting even? Not good psychological places to be in, me thinks. Anyway, I am, as we all are, a work in progress.

Glad to see how many of us have 'hung around' all this time. Miss seeing what is up with the others, though.