My question to you is why bother ? Is it a deal breaker to you ? Why do you feel you have the right to get in the way of her pursuit of happiness ? Why do you feel you have the right to control her ? Why do you enjoy a divergence of paths on your words and actions ?
Seriously!
Why?
You already gave her your blessing to go on this trip. You showed this with words and actions. You are rearranging your schedule to accommodate her.
Your idea of dropping a guilt bomb before she takes off is not going to do anything.
Except show once again how you try to control her.
Let it go.
If you really want to know what is going on hire a P.I. Get your proof to satisfy what emotional needs you need satisfied.
If I was you. I would cancel the phones.
Why do you keep them in play? Why do you keep spying on her?
You will get more sleep when you do not pour over her movements. You will get more sleep when you let it go.
If its a deal breaker. Fast track the divorce and get it over with.
If it is not. Then stop trying to control her with guilt bombs.
Your whole thread is you working towards your next guilt session with your wife.
You need to learn that you cannot control her. It has been a constant theme since you started to post here.
Your not getting that.
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