I don't want to excuse her or me by any means but we both have had different scheduling conflicts in the last week were we have had to ask the other to cover for each other. Her going out of town only changes one day during this week and it is my weekend next anyone so she would be going anyway. I know if I didn't switch with her this one day she would perceive this as controlling even though that is beside the point because why she is going is the problem. I will add she doesn't know that I know of the OM where she is going.
When I asked my W in text where she was going on her road trip she said maybe one place or other (the place where the OM is). I know she said that because if she said just this place it would really sound weird because we have never been there and it is very far away.
My point is I don't know 100% for sure she is going to see the OM but in my heart I know she is. My question is do I just talk to her now before she goes to put things straight?
Our phone records indicate she is contacting numerous new people which I can guaranty are not new girlfriends. If I didn't know better she is on a online dating website our she is just chasing men on Facebook all over the place. Anyway I don't see for myself how I can go on like this with my W running towards any man that she can find. If that's what she wants then so be it and I will move on.
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012
