Husband left me...feel hopeless

[hopingandpraying]

Thanks 25 for commenting on my stitch. I know 6 weeks is a short time in comparison to others and your equation for success makes perfect sense!

I guess I'm just having a hard time finding things to work on for myself to help myself and our R because I don't even know what his complaints are. I have always been active in groups and have strived to make all my goals. I did start taking a Zumba class and am thinking about joining a gym...that would be a 180 for me, which would benefit my health and my H loves to work out, so he could see that as a positive.

I just don't understand how he's going to see change if we are not communicating or see each other at all. I have not talked to him in a week (including texting) and we have not seen each other in two weeks. How can he see these changes if we're not communicating?

I know in our M, for the past year, he knows that I do not completely trust him because he had a VERY short EA with a girl from work. Now, this past time when we separated he had a PA with a girl a week after we separated. I'm not sure if I can come back from those things and trust him, but I don't think I'll know unless I see changes in him. I'm just so confused!