Well I switch the day or two with my W so she can go because that means I get my S for a week straight over Easter which I'm excited about.
As for my W I plan on just letting her go to the other state and if she does I will let her know that I know about the other men and I'm not ok with living in an open marriage.
Two points:
1. Your wordssay one thing, Snowman, but your ACTIONSsay another.
2. I can assure you, your wife pays no attention to your words; only your actions.