Here is my new thread:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2234458&#Post2234458

Snodderly: Yes, I know you said to take back my bedroom. I think I was worried I was going to make him more mad. Now I see it just doesn't matter. He can get glad in the same pants he got mad in......

Beatrice: He does not connect meaningfully with anyone except OW. All the rest of us are cardboard people to him. He still is nice to the kids grandkids. But unless I make plans to hang out as a family, he just sees them whenever.

He had made the bold statement a few weeks ago that he would never ride in a car with me again. He leaves Sat for a week in DC. I asked him how he was getting to the airport. He finally got one of his sons to agree to take him. Even if he hadn't made the bold statement, he didn't check with me about it, except to tell me what day he was travelling. I have yoga class when he needs to be at the airport. And I prefer to not miss yoga!

Kaffe: We will hope he sees something spunky in me. Otherwise, I will just be happier in general!

Kimmerez! I am trying to be better at setting boundaries! Thanks!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!