I am muddling through my paperwork and phone calls this morning. Read everyones comments. I am wishing and hoping that it is sinking in.
OW is hurt, sad and alone, too. She is a bit scary in her current abilities to manipulate. I am more and more seeing my H as a person who seems to take pleasure in hurting both OW and I. He is messing up all our lives. He is only seeing himself and not concerned at all about me, our kids, our grandkids, our friends, and even OW.
Whatever happens, happens. I will take back my bedroom. Last night I caved and asked him a question about the texts. And he responded so much like a child. I reacted like a child. He stormed off to bed, and I followed him and told him to at least tell me he was sorry I was being harrassed.
He said he had said that. He hadn't! I told him that, and then he did say it. I also reiterated that I feel there is only one person who would have any reason to send me these messages. And that I wanted him to admit it. He then said he still couldn't do anything about it.
I was way off DB track. I told him off about a few other things. But he can do something about the texts. He won't. He told me he asked her did she do it and she said no. (That settles it!)
I haven't had any yet today. I sent an email to the parent company and asked them to block my number. Of course there are many other companies out there that allow you to send anonomyous texts and emails.
The carper cleaner is scheduled for the master bedroom. I'm going to buy a bunch of boxes and pack away all of my priceless antiques. So when people look at the house they see the house, not all the stuff in it!
I better get busy!
Aloha,
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
