My ex use to be such a generous person. He is now very cheap with his own kids, but spends money on OW's son. It just kills me, but believing in Karma is my saving grace.
Seeking, I think most of the ML'ers are like this, but it sure is hard to take.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Its like they are disconnected from their kids.. I dont get that because I feel that nothing would be more important than my kids.. It must be MLC because many men are dedicated to their kids ..divorced or not Peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
How are you doing Peace? So nice to hear from you.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Well an interesting outcome to court today. Ex settled before the hearing giving me the increase in child support that I requested. Very unexpected since he has fought like a viking with things like this. My lawyer was baffled, but I am counting my blessings.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Trusting, Your xh still wants to control your life and unfortunately, he doesn't care or even realize that he no longer has the final say in financial matters, especially when the judicial system is involved.
As for arguing w/you, he isn't a happy camper even w/a fiance in the picture. He doesn't know what he wants and he doesn't want to see you happy and successful....too bad!
I hope that you and your famil have a wonderful Easter!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
It will be a tad lonely for me this Easter. Ex, OW and kids are all going to Florida for Spring Break. I am already gearing up for it and hope to complete many home projects. Hope your Easter is wonderful as well Snodderly.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Enjoy your quiet time...you will get a lot done while everyone is away. Do try to get some much needed "pamper time" in too.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
