Hi GM

The others are right, divorce needs to be a contract, a business
The MLCer is no longer the person we knew and lived with..
They will get mad during the process, Mine did
This D seemed like it came fairly fast, so you have not had much time to deal with it
Just remember to take care of yourself.. eat, sleep, rest, talk to trusted people..it helps to have support or a therapist to guide us ect..
Most of us have come through it well and probably much better than be4
Do not trust him anymore..he is a different man..seems weird but they change in an instant into a total stranger
do not belive anything he says w
some times we get glimples of the old H,and it gets confusing, but they are glimpses only..it is a long journet and last a long time for most
Keep posting and good luck with the job
Peace
It is a long journey and we need to take care of oursleves


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow