I would not respond to it. There's only one question there, and you can't answer it for her. If pressed to respond, DB would be to simply listen & validate her feelings.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.