I completely understand your worry that your H is turning into someone you do not know. That is what I am feeling now and I'm loaded with doubt and hopelessness. Just know that you're not alone.
Keep staying strong and detaching yourself. That's where I am at, too! I have not texted with my H since Monday also and it was about our dog and then for him to give me lame excuses that he couldn't go on a date (which he agreed to in DB counseling..uggghh). It's a tough process, but if he wants me in the end and I can forgive, then I know we'll be great, but if not, I'll be better off without all of this pain.
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July
