Im just right behind you in posts agreeing with everything..LOl.
Golf Mom, Snodderly is right on target. I know this because I just went through all of it in regards to divorce.
Everything she said is true. One thing I strongly agree with is get that visitation schedule and boundaries down and stick to them. I didn't do that at first and it cause me more frustration and issues down the road.
Think of it this way. If divorce is what he wants, then fine! GAME ON! But you're sticking to the rules, and your attorney is there to back you up all the way.
Honestly I think the MLCer needs this to wake up a bit to reality. I think it woke mine up a bit.