Hi,

I have been gone from the board for a while. I will return during the weekend to write my update (although nothing major happened - still in NC mode from both sides).

I have a question though... H's birthday is approaching. Do you believe I should send him a text message or an email wishing him happy birthday? Or will this ne considered as pursuing?


Me: BW 30
Him: WH 31
T 12 years, M 3.5
No kids
OW 27 single ex co-worker

Bomb: 13/07/2011
S: 13/07/2011 - 16/09/2011
H came Home 16/09/2011
Dday: 01/10/2011
H left again 23/11/2011

Separated since...