I felt calm there for a while from when I started DB until this check matter so almost a month. By no means am I giving up but I have to further the lovingly distant behavior.

Sadly I received a notice in the mail last night that there will be bench warrant for my arrest because of unpaid parking violations on a car I own (and is drive by H.) The vehicle was a gift from my parents. Friends, I come from an upper middle-class family, went to fancy prep schools and have a prestigious career. My H comes from a proper upper middle-class Midwestern family. Never in my wildest dreams would I have suspected being involved in such degrading activities. My attorney friends are going ballistic. I know this is nothing compared to what some people have suffered before, during and after D but this is low.


M: 39, H: 38
D: 4
Together: 19 Y
Married: 9 Y
Bomb #1: 11/04/11 (5 days b/f anniversary)
Bomb #2 and H left: 01/03/12 (day b/f my bday)
OW: confirmed, they live together already