Hi, I just spent hours reading netmaster threads? Trying to learn from everyones stories. When I got back I see you posted, I always go, Barely! You feel like such a friend to me and I thank you. That rant about his friend, well I just was thinking after talking to H. about l. and the advise his friend gave and it got me to thinking. I'm at the point I know I have no control over anything concerning H.
I had an interesting chat with my d. bf dad tonite. They are very concerned my h. isn't trying to get anything by me in settlement. He's a cynical old irish man, his words. Practically the first thing he said was, you need to DETACH! Cracked me up inside! He was giving good advise. He was saying the feelings I have now about h. won't matter a whit after the d. Look out for yourself now. It's your future. I have always trusted h., but he's right, have to look out for myself for future. So glad I'm getting some financial expertise. I don't think h. is trying to screw me, but he's not an expert and I need to make sure his calculations are fair. Kind of dreading appt. too much math! Anyway, I hope this will answer some questions. Or it will open a whole can of worms with H. But h. is gone and I have to look out for my future. It's hard to db when you may have to p. them off. This whole thing suxs.
How you doing? and do let me know how slidy things work. O btw, when you said you you at Pt. Roberts, my H. and I often went to Semiyamhoo to eat and we could see White Rock and I think Pt. Roberts. Take care.
