Originally Posted By: WenikiTiki
Kaffe: Yes and no.

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How can I kick someone out who has emotionally already gone?


You have been doing great so far, IMHO. You are working through a lot of stuff... and you are getting stronger... MUCH stronger...

I just don't know that you feel you are strong enough to do it...

Your "yes and no" answer certainly speaks to that...

You need to be ready to survive and accept what ever consequences come of this...

I personally believe you can...

Do you?

I can't see the future, but I'll make a prediction...

Your H will absolutely notice a new you, if you do this...

Men appreciate strength (I like to call it "spunk") in a woman... Your H might be really confused... but I hope he's not stupid...