"The room upstairs is my room, my paintings, my furniture choices, my curtains. I know it sounds a bit childish, but I want to sleep in my beautiful bedroom."
It's not childish. That is your sanctuary. Reclaim it. You're only hurting yourself and allowing him to enjoy himself. By movingback into the bedroom, you're doing two things: 1)You're reclaiming the calming part of the home that you feel safe in, 2)You are showing that you are not going to play second fiddle to another woman. You are showing that you are a strong woman who will not be a second choice.
The island has so many beautiful places to go and find inner peace. You can always do something active with a local outdoor group to get stronger.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.